Christmas is about family, love etc. Well my
immediate family is in a better place, but it is worth remind here good Christmas, the presents, the songs.
My Dad had this album of Christmas songs, with a pic of harp surrounded by a
Xmas tree an bubbles, on the cover. This would be the first on the turntable with
Jingle Bells at full volume! Can't remember what Mum and I really
felt about that, nonetheless was really nice to see him very
cheerful and singing along it.
When I still believe in Father Christmas, I was allowed to write a little letter to him asking what I wanted, and stick it to outside our flat's front door. I was explained I could ask only
accordingly to our economical situation because Father Christmas did not like to outshine your parents gifts.
A day after, my list was posted outside our door, my Dad would smile and show me that my letter had been collected. I did not understand that enigmatic
smile until some years latter.
In my small head, I thought, it was completely impossible for Father Christmas to deliver gifts for all children in the world on a single night! So he must had to deliver them earlier, under the care of your parents, who would hide it
until Christmas eve. I used to start my search around the house for my Christmas gifts at least 2 weeks in advance, never found anything. So maybe the delivery was by magic or something?! My parents must had a hard time to hide all very well.
My Dad's folks lived very far away from us, so we use to go every Christmas eve, to one of my uncles house, where my Mom's folks would be. And after loads of food and wine the whole affair would end in that family arguing as usual. At 1am someone would be either very angry or on the verge of tears, it wasn't very nice. Next day Mom would cook a very nice lunch for the three of us only and finally we would enjoy. After a while we gave up going to my uncle's.
We
commemorate in my country, mostly on Christmas eve, my Dad like the food then, my Mom hated to cook
Xmas eve, cos she would be tired from work. O
ne Christmas, I got a turkey as a present from the company I worked for. I called my parents, asked what were the plans for the night, they said none. I put the bird and all
ingredients on a bag, went to their place and said, Mom, Dad this year we are having Christmas supper and I'm cooking. They were delighted! Specially my Dad, we had a lovely Christmas, it was
joyful, tender as Christmas should be, we had a
wonderful time. It turned out to be my Dad's last among us, well I bet he had a lot to talk about to his new friends in the other side.
Another nice one, was the last my Mom and I spent together. That time was over my place, her, my cousin and her baby, turkey on the table, wine and you could never imagine how 3 & 1/2 people can make such a nice party.
This Christmas I've spent with this memories and talking a lot to a very good friend, who could not be with me, on the telephone, several times.
It was nice!